If the power to impact your life begins and ends with YOU, then why aren't you living the personal reality YOUR dreams are made of?

Well, you should first recognise your self-denial practices, and then take ownership of your blaming, shaming, scheming, and the bullshit excuses you constantly use. Yadda, yadda, yadda! We all know what to do, yet we constantly struggle to get shit done. Why that? Because we are most likely unaware of the emotional root causes that trigger all our actions, re-actions, and inactions. All of the hard work is in the Ego emotional work, which many of us avoid doing.

Yup, we gotta surrender, be vulnerable, and get f**king emotional! Sniff! 

Understand & Connect to Your Emotional Self

Discover yourself and your ego versions in your day-to-day conflicts and emotional breakdowns. Understand and enhance your intelligences. Recognise your re-active, emotional patterns, and be empowered by who and what disturbs you.

Unravel your social, emotional, and cultural conditioning, and gain a better understanding of who you are and who you are not. Courageously embody your authentic self who is eager to live an uncompromising life on your terms.

The IsNotSo mission is to help you get REALLY emotional

Helping you is an impossibility if IsNotSo attempts to meet your expectations, to please you, and keep you satisfied. The same logic is behind why you are not helping anyone else by keeping them happy, especially at the expensive of your own well-being.

Kim.E is bound to piss you off, which is why she is "Sorry not sorry!" for the lack of intriguing, superficial promises and bold claims that would skilfully broadcast her competence and expertise, and induce your trust in her and her products. If Kim.E´s authenticity is what sells - then yay! If her lack of superficial, marketing tactics doesn't sell - then so be it! Because a predictable, rigid mindset is what keeps many people comfortably shackled to a life they no longer want, IsNotSo discomfort and the slicing through of ego bullshit is an absolute guarantee.

Imagine dying without ever trying because you chose to exist instead? Imagine never learning about the vastness of your unique potential because you were scared shitless of failure? Imagine the great sense of regret you would feel as you reached the end of a life you never truly lived? Ouch! Now, if that isn´t a slap-in-the-face moment of radical, mental soberness, then I don't know what is. To become a better person who lives a better life, you have gotta work on all your emotional crap.

There is no gain without the emotional pain! Hot damn!  

Discover the purpose of your emotional meltdowns

Perhaps you're struggling with your own emotions or the annoying egos of others. Maybe you are tired of hoping that people, your current circumstances, or world events will change, because your happiness still depends on everything and everyone else. Perhaps you find it challenging to detach yourself from experiences that trigger you emotionally and are out of your control.

Hot Mess to Invincible is a FREE 10-step process that will help you recognise your ego re-actions whenever you find yourself in challenging situations with difficult people. Learn how you can feel empowered and not overpowered by what disturbs you. In other words, learn how to get out of your own way.

Awesome - Affordable - All-Inclusive

Be B.O.SS.Y. Self-Actualisation is an affordable opportunity that literally ticks off all the boxes. The combination of two programs includes: UnMask Your Ego Versions drip content with 1 lesson every 2 weeks, which alternates with the Be B.O.SS.Y. content that is presented live in 26 recorded sessions. This means that you receive new content, either digitised or live, every week for a whole year.

The best part is the 12-month subscription model that makes personal transformation affordable for anyone willing to embark on the rather humbling journey of sobering up to the reality of the person they have become in the life they personally created, and embodying the authentic version they innately are.

All we need is love motivation - a.k.a. booty-kicking

→ Most of us yearn for a more fulfilled and abundant life, but keep getting more of what we don't want. Blaming others is par for the course as we continue to strive, survive, hope, wish, and wait.

→ Most of us inherited dysfunctional relationship skills, and were never taught how to navigate emotionally challenging situations. We suck at understanding our own emotions, let alone those of others.

→ Most of us struggle to thrive in intimate relationships and suffer sexual shame. We feel lost in shallow friendships and have a love-hate relationship with difficult family members.

Who we are is reflected in our social groups

The dynamics of the small groups we intermingle with have an enormous influence on our lives. Those we are surrounded by play crucial roles that go beyond the label or title of parent, sibling, partner, colleague, or friend. It may be very difficult to reveal our authentic selves around such groups.

Discovering who we all are within a distinct group is a rather intriguing journey, and there is a huge amount to learn about ourselves in the process. If you are willing to do ALL the hard, emotional work with a group of your choice, be it with family members, work colleagues, or friends, Be B.O.SS.Y. Small Groups could be your fancy. Available in a group setting with a minimum of four and a maximum of eight people.